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England Trip Part Two: Puritan/Spurgeon Tour

As I mentioned in my last post, one of the main reasons Alex and I went to England is because Alex is doing PhD research on Charles Spurgeon. On our third day there, our gracious host, Jeremy Walker, spent about 12 hours driving us through the English countryside so that we could see various Puritan and Spurgeon sites. If you're interested, Jeremy is actually featured in a documentary that shows you many of the sites in the tour we did with him. The documentary is available on You Tube and is called "Through the Eyes of Spurgeon."

It was an amazing day and it was unbelievable to see so much history and to see the gorgeous English countryside and several adorable little towns! I could have spent DAYS photographing all of the beauty! I especially loved Lavenham and all of the crooked buildings, colorful doors, and flower pots!

I asked Alex to write a little about the Puritans and Spurgeon for those of you reading this who are interested in learning more. Here's a little information written by my husband:

The English Puritans

The Puritans were a group of English Protestants who sought to reform, or “purify,” the Church of England in the 16th and 17th centuries. They were known for their deep piety, their allegiance to the Bible, and their desire to see thorough reform in both the Christian church and in the Christian life. After the Roman Catholic reign of Mary I (“Bloody Mary”), Elizabeth I ascended the throne. Elizabeth, having been raised a protestant, had a more irenic disposition toward non-Catholics. She, in essence, re-established the Church of England but allowed many Roman Catholic elements to remain in the church. The Puritan movement was essentially birthed out of the desire of many protestants to reform the Church of England under Queen Elizabeth and subsequent monarchs.

After years of ongoing tension and persecution, including the Act of Uniformity of 1662 which effectively ejected over 2,000 Puritan pastors from their churches, many Puritans made their way to America to seek religious freedom. In many ways, early America was founded on Puritan ideals. Many in protestant churches today regard the Puritans with great respect for their fidelity to the Bible and their willingness even to die for their Christian convictions.

Charles Haddon Spurgeon

C.H. Spurgeon (1834-1892), often referred to as the Prince of Preachers, is considered by most historians to be the preeminent preacher of the Victorian Era in England. Spurgeon’s mighty legacy as a preacher stems from his unusual preaching gift that began from a very early age. By the time he was 20, it is estimated that he had preached 600 sermons. Spurgeon grew up west of London in Essex. He took his first pastorate at Waterbeach, near Cambridge, when he was only 17. After a couple years of spectacularly fruitful ministry there, he went on to become the pastor of the New Park Street Chapel in London, which later relocated and was renamed the Metropolitan Tabernacle which still stands to this day. Spurgeon ministered in London from 1854 until his death in 1892.

Spurgeon preached weekly to his congregation of 6,000 throughout his life. He often preached to much larger gatherings including one that numbered nearly 25,000. He left behind 63 large volumes of printed sermons with more still being published today. In addition to his legacy as a preacher, Spurgeon was also an incredible philanthropist. At one point in his lifetime as many as 66 parachurch ministries were based out of the Metropolitan Tabernacle, most of which were either founded, chaired, or financially supported by Spurgeon himself. He was also a prolific writer. By the end of his life Spurgeon had published more words in the English language than any other Christian in history.

Today he is regarded as one of the most significant Baptist ministers in church history.

Birthplace of the Prince of Preachers, Charles Haddon Spurgeon!

Alex thought this looked like the Prancing Pony from Lord of the Rings

This is the Parish Church of St. Peter ad Vincula in Coggeshall, Essex. This is a small town where John Owen for a number of years before the English Civil War.

Alex in Owen's pulpit!

This is Jeremiah Burrough's chapel, another famous Puritan.

This bench is a very very long story. Ask Alex about it, he will love to tell you! Suffice it to say, the steel used to in this bench is significant to Spurgeon history.

Looks like a random house, but this is actually where Spurgeon lived for several years as a child with his grandparents.

This was really special. You may not be able to read the plaque, but this is the chapel where Spurgeon was converted. The account of his conversion is well worth reading in his autobiography. The text the Lord used to convert him was Isaiah 45:22, "Turn to Me and be saved, all the ends of the earth; For I am God, and there is no other."

Left: This is just outside John Roger's church. There are famous accounts of John Rogers actually preaching out of that window just above Alex's head. You wouldn't know from this picture, but Alex is facing a town square where over a thousand people would've gathered to hear Rogers preach. Right: Alex in Roger's pulpit.

A bust of John Rogers in the chapel.

The following several pictures are from Lavenham. Lavenham was one of my favorite places that we went. It was an ADORABLE little town with really quaint and colorful buildings.

We had tea in the tearoom in the picture on the left called "The Crooked House." It was adorable! I had an amazing Rhubarb pie with clotted cream!

This is St. Peter and St. Paul's Church in Lavenham where William Gurnall was rector in the 1600s.

This was such a treat! It was a long walk through a working farm in the driving wind, but we finally made it to the spot where Spurgeon was baptized!

And here's the water! Can you imagine being baptized in this water in March as Spurgeon was? Not only that, but he walked soaking wet several miles back to his home afterward.

This is Andrew Fuller's first church located in Soham. Alex has an 1845 edition of Owen's three volume collected works that were given to him as a gift from one of our pastors!

This is Waterbeach where Spurgeon took his first pastorate. This would have been right before he went to London where he ministered for the rest of his life.

This is the church where he ministered.

This stone was laid by Spurgeon!

Here's a few other iPhone pictures:

We stopped in Lavenham and had pasties from a butcher (ignore Alex's thumb in this pic ;)). My family loves pasties and so I was excited to have one in England...this picture is for you Dad!! :)

We ended our tour at The Green Dragon in Cambridge. It seemed only fitting to eat at a pub named "The Green Dragon"! Also, they supposedly had one the "Best Fish and Chips of 2015" award. Unfortunately I didn't get a picture of my plate!

England Trip Part One: Oxford

My husband Alex and I had the blessing and privilege to travel to England last week and it was an amazing trip! Alex is currently getting his PhD through Southeastern Seminary and he's going to write his dissertation on Charles Spurgeon. Charles Spurgeon was a well known Baptist preacher in the mid-to-late 1800's in London. So Alex and I took a trip to England to do a church history tour and visit famous Spurgeon and Puritan sites as well as to take a personal vacation. I actually studied abroad in London for 5 months back in 2008 so I'm pretty familiar with London, but it was a joy to experience it again with my husband who's never been there! I also got to see a lot of things (like the beautiful English countryside and Cambridge) that I didn't get to see when I studied abroad!

I'll be posting 4 parts to our trip. This is the first of four and will show pictures from the first two days of our trip in Oxford.

I had so much fun taking pictures in Oxford! This city really is a photographers in dream! Literally every building is stunning and they're all hundreds and hundreds of years old. While I was there, I learned that Oxford began in 1096 (or at least there's evidence of some form of teaching that far back) and all of the buildings you see have largely stayed intact for hundreds of years. Throughout much of London, many buildings were destroyed during the bombings of World War II. However, Hitler wanted Oxford to be his capitol. Thankfully that never happened!

Here's some of the highlights:

The Eagle and Child - where C.S. Lewis and Tolkien used to meet!

Martyrs memorial in the center of Oxford. Hugh Latimer and Nicholas Ridley were burned at the stake at this spot. As they burned, Latimer shouted to Ridley, "Be of good comfort, Mr. Ridley, and play the man! We shall this day light such a candle by God's grace, in England, as I trust never shall be put out."

Bodleian Library-  The Bodleian Library is the main research library of the University of Oxford. It is one of the oldest libraries in Europe. With over 12 million items, it is the second largest library in Britain after the British Library.

The Bridge of Sighs- supposedly a replica of the bridge in Venice

The University Church of Saint Mary the Virgin. Absolutely gorgeous!

Many men have given historic addresses in this building including C.S. Lewis who delivered his 1942 war-time message, "The Weight of Glory." Sadly, this was also the site where the Oxford martyrs, Latimer, Ridley, and Cranmer were tried and convicted. So much history.

Loved all the colorful buildings and tea rooms! Why can't we get more tea rooms in America?!

Magdalen College- Where C.S. Lewis taught!

They say this is the prettiest street view in Oxford...I think I have to agree!

We went to the top of the tower at the University Church to get a view of the city and it was totally worth it! I love this shot of the Bodleian Library!

The pulpit of the University Church (Where C.S. Lewis preached, "The Weight of Glory")

Balliol college, Oxford. Adam Smith, the father of modern economics, attended this college, much to Alex's delight. John Wycliffe was another famous alumnus.

This particular dining hall in Balliol was actually the room that inspired the Harry Potter dining hall scenes.

This door was so cool! So during WWII, C.S. Lewis had an office at the University Church. Every day he would exit the church and immediately enter this door. You'll notice in the center of the door is carved a lion. On either side you can see the gold figurines that resemble Fauns. You can't see it here, but just to the right is a lamp post. All of these objects inspired much of the imagery of the Chronicles of Narnia. So cool!

Christ Church Cathedral of Oxford where John Owen was once Dean. Owen was also Vice-Chancellor of Oxford University under Oliver Cromwell.

Christ Church College

Oxford Castle

Here's a few pictures from my phone (the only way we could get pictures together!!):

Here's a video Alex took at the top of the tower:

 

My Goals for 2016

The Lord has abundantly blessed Alex and I this year and I'm amazed as I reflect back on the ways He's grown DiPrima Photography. It's so easy for me to just how my business is lacking or all the places I wish it would go and to forget to celebrate all the ways its changed and grown! So, before I share my goals for 2016 I want to reflect back on my 2015 goals:

1. Get to know wedding vendors and other photographers in North Carolina

  • I've DEFINITELY had the chance to get to know SO many amazing photographers and vendors this year! I'm so blessed as I reflect on the relationships the Lord has provided! One that stands out to me is the women I've met by doing "Tuesdays Together" with the Rising Tide society in Burlington. These ladies and entrepreneurs have been a great source of friendship, encouragement, and business advice to me! In fact, I even got to plan a styled shoot back in August with many of these creative and talented women.

2. Continue Re-branding from "Jenna Wayment Photography" to "DiPrima Photography"

  • I think this was certainly well accomplished! I love my logo and the current state of my website. I do still have room to grow and I will have some branding goals in my 2016 goals.

3.. Shoot 8+ weddings in 2015

  • Wow! I can't believe how the Lord has blessed this goal! I remember being scared to type the number "8" because I didn't think there was any way that was going to happen. I ended up shooting 14 weddings and second shooting 6 weddings! I get teary eyed as I reflect on all of the couples this year who trusted me with the very important of capturing their wedding. To all my clients and friends: thank you SO much for believing in me and my business!

4. Attend one photography workshop (Katelyn James' workshop would be my dream but it's pretty pricey!)

  • I didn't attend a full blown workshop this year, but I did get to attend the "Come Together" event which was extremely profitable! I also got to watch most of Jasmine Star's class on Creative Live as it was coming out and it was SUPER helpful (I highly recommend it to wedding photographers or aspiring wedding photographers!).

5. Purchase a Canon 5D Mark III and 50mm 1.2L lens. 

  • Again, the Lord abundantly blessed in this area! I was able to purchase the Mark III, Canon 50mm 1.2L, Sigma Art 35mm 1.4, Canon 70-200mm 2.8L, and the Canon 600 EX-RT flash. I was able to buy all of this by working 2 jobs in addition to my photography business. So there was several months where I was working like crazy but it was worth it to be able to put all of my profits towards equipment and to invest into my business without going into debt. I HIGHLY recommend working full time or doing whatever you need to do in order to take your profits and re-invest them rather than buying equipment on a credit card and having debt looming over you (Dave Ramsey all the way!).

5. Train my husband Alex in photography and take him shooting with me! 

  • This happened a little bit! Alex third shot one wedding with me and shot a few engagement sessions with me.  He has an eye for photography and if he decides he's interested, he could be a great second shooter!

6. Run a few give-aways throughout the year. 

  • I was able to do a few Instagram and Facebook giveaways that went well! I have plans for another giveaway soon!! :)

7. Blog regularly. I'd like to blog at least 2-3 times a week with pictures of my work, wedding/photography related posts, and personal posts about my life.

  • I did fairly well at blogging but there's definitely room for improvement! 

Some other notable things that happened in 2015:

My Goals for 2016

My Business Goals:
1. Shoot 15+ weddings in 2016.

2. Create a wedding welcome packet and continue to work on branding (new business cards, stationary, etc.).

3. Continue building relationships with other vendors and photographers.

4. Purchase more gear.
Specifically the Canon 100mm 2.8L lens, Canon 24-70mm 2.8L lens, and another 600 flash and a light stand (so I can start doing off camera flash).

5. Serve my clients well and find ways to bless each of them individually!

6. Attend a workshop and continue developing my photography skills.
Specifically I'd really like to focus on learning off camera flash this year as well as continuing to grow in lighting and posing and framing pictures well.

7. Do at least one styled shoot.

8. Make a sample album and begin selling albums.

9. Improve my culling, editing, and blogging process and make it more efficient.

10. Blog AT LEAST 3 times a week every week.
I really want to work on getting better at pre-blogging so that I don't get so overwhelmed that I neglect blogging.

11. Start offering business mentoring and coaching and design and teach a class for beginner photographers.
I have to admit, this goal REALLY scares me!! I still have a lot to learn and in a lot of ways, I don't feel ready to teach others. But I've had a few precious women seek me out for mentoring and I'm truly amazed and honored that they want to pay me in order to learn from me! I love mentoring and would LOVE to incorporate more of this into my business this year. I've also had a lot of beginning photographers and moms wanting to take pictures of their children reach out to me and so I want to create and teach a class for them to learn beginning photography skills.

My Personal Goals
1. Spend time in the Word and prayer daily.
I want to spend at least 30 minutes every morning in the Word and prayer.

2. Memorize a book of the Bible (probably James because I'm studying it with a group of women right now).

3. Work out at least 30 minutes 3-4 times a week (I REALLY failed at working out this year!).

4. Grow in loving my husband better, encouraging him more frequently, and exercising more self control by withholding mean or unhelpful words.

5. Continue finding ways to serve at Grace and continue working on building relationships.
I want to accomplish this by getting coffee with at least one woman per week and having at least 2 women/couples/families over for dinner each month.

6. Read 10 books.
A few on my list are: Evangelism and the Sovereignty of God, 1776The Speechwriter, Spurgeon's Autobiography, The Measure of Success, and Iain Murray's biography on the Life of Martin Lloyd Jones. Please let me know if you have any suggestions!

7. Spend less time working and more time with Alex and with friends.
I've struggled more than I have in the past with work/life balance this year. I'm learning that when you're an entrepreneur and you're the ONLY employee at your business, it's easy to work constantly because the tasks never seem to be done! It's also easy for me to get very wrapped up in work because, thankfully, my business is something I enjoy and am passionate about. However, about six months ago I started to see that I was neglecting friendships and doing a bad job of pursuing people. I think I've improved a lot in the past few months and have begun meeting regularly with a few women, going through Evangelism and the Sovereignty of God with a friend, and attending a bi-monthly bible study on the book of James. I really want to continue learning to work more efficiently and to be more organized so that I can choose people over tasks more frequently!

8. Take WAY more personal pictures this year! 
This one kind of makes me sad. I used to be SO good about documenting everything. When I look back on the last year, I have almost zero pictures of friends and family. Yikes! Its so easy to get caught up in photographing everyone and everything else that you have no time or energy to photograph your own life! I'm going to make a really intentional effort to photography for myself more, even if I don't feel like it. I also want to spend more time growing creatively and photographing just for the joy of creating art.

9. Learn basic sowing skills. 
I don't want to learn anything complicated, but I just want to learn how to sew up holes, hem pants, etc.

10. Continue to grow in being frugal and saving money and BUY A HOUSE!
This is a big goal that I'm not sure will really happen but Alex and I are hoping for it! We would love to buy a house by this time next year. I think it's pretty doable if we do a really good job of saving and spending carefully. I definitely struggle in this area because I have to admit that I love shopping! Marriage and God's grace is helping me learn to be more frugal though!
 

 

Christmas 2015 with the DiPrimas

Alex and I had a wonderful Christmas with his family in Easley, SC! I'm very thankful for the DiPrimas and for the sweet family they've become to me. They are definitely one of God's greatest blessings to me in marriage!

We spent Christmas Eve at Grandma Judy's house and had such a fun night. Grandma Judy goes all out and we  feasted all night on wings, mac & cheese, ham, desserts, egg nog... you name it! We also opened all of our gifts from her in the evening.

Christmas morning we got up and all put on our coordinating Christmas pajamas made by my mother-in-law. I was pretty impressed that she made pajamas for all 12 of us...that's a lot of pajamas to customize! We had a great time opening gifts and hanging out together. It was also very exciting to have the first DiPrima grandchild with us, Romi! She just turned two months old and she is ADORABLE! She was in high demand this Christmas. :) 

Girls Weekend in Hendersonville, NC

I will be forever grateful for the friends that I made while doing Generation LINK at Crosspoint. I had the privilege of living with six girls several years ago who were all doing Generation LINK and it was one of the best and most fun years of my life! We're all spread out in different cities doing different things now but I'm so thankful that when we do have a chance to get back together, it feels like we can just pick up where we left off! 

Here's a picture from our girls weekend back in 2012:

Caroline, Natalia, Leslie, Krystal, Savannah, Lauren (and I was taking the picture)

Caroline, Natalia, Leslie, Krystal, Savannah, Lauren (and I was taking the picture)

One of my goals for 2016 (a blog post with more goals is coming soon!) is to take more personal pictures. I used to take so many pictures of my travels and of friends and family and I have severely neglected that this year! Its hard to take pictures for yourself when you are constantly taking pictures for your job! This weekend was the perfect opportunity to take pictures of some of my closest friends. We were able to have a girls weekend again in Hendersonville and Caroline's parents graciously let us stay at their mountain house in Saluda, NC. Unfortunately not everyone was able to make it, but I'm glad that me, Lauren, Caroline, and Krystal could be there! I had SO much fun hanging out in the mountain house and talking, eating meals together, playing LOTS of dutch blitz and hand and foot, and walking around Hendersonville. I think I appreciate weekends like this and friends who I have such a long history with more than I ever have now that we all live in different places. It really is a true blessing to have friends who know you SO well and who you don't have to explain yourself to! Here's a few pictures of us: