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My Baby Registry List

 
 

I have probably spent WAY too much time researching what to put on our baby registry, but I have enjoyed it! Based on a Facebook poll, lots of Pinterest articles, asking friends, and blogs, I have come up with my baby registry list. I'm certainly no expert since I haven't even had a baby yet, but I wanted to share some of my research with you because I found it SO helpful when I was first trying to figure everything out.  I will also do an updated post once we've had Baby DiPrima to share what my favorite registry items ended up being, what I could have gone without, and what I wish I had gotten. I know every baby is unique and so a list that works perfectly for one mom won't necessarily work perfectly for me. I look forward to learning and figure out exactly what my baby likes!

First of all, I decided to register at Amazon and Target. I really debated about Amazon because I was nervous people would want to go into a physical store. But so far that hasn't seemed to be much of a problem (except maybe for a few older relatives!) and it has been much easier for out of town friends and family! And these days with Amazon Prime, it seems like many people prefer to shop online rather than go into a store anyway. I registered for most things at Amazon because they are usually less expensive on Amazon and Amazon has the largest selection. I also love Amazon's registry benefits which include a one time 15% completion discount and a $100 diapers and wipes credit if $1000 is spent from your registry. Another cool thing about Amazon's registry is that you can add items from other websites (so I was able to list a few items from Etsy, Land of Nod, etc.). The other place I decided to register was Target. I ended up double registering for some things in case people prefer to purchase them in person rather than on Amazon. I really debated back and forth between Target and Babies R'Us but I landed on Target because Target is convenient for most everyone and because they have really cute nursery items, bedding, clothes, etc. I also like that Target has a one time 15% registry completion discount. The downside of Target is that they don't have a huge in store selection but I did my best to try and select as many items available in stores as possible.

If you'd like to see my full registry, you can find them online at Amazon and Target.

Without further ado, here's some of my top registry items:

Travel:

City Select StrollerThis was one of the items I did the most research about. After talking with several friends and reading lots and lots of reviews, I decided the City Select Stroller sounded like the best fit for our family. I love the City Select Stroller because it has 16 different configurations and you can attach an infant car seat, buy the second seat to turn it into a double stroller, etc. The options are endless and it really seems like a great fit for a growing family. I felt that, while in the short term this is more money than a lot of strollers, it will hopefully save us money in the long term because, Lord willing if we have other children, we shouldn't have to buy a separate double stroller. If you'd like a less expensive option or don't feel you need one that can later be converted to a double, I've heard great things about the Baby Jogger City Mini GT.

Chicco Keyfit Car SeatI also did a ton of research about the car seat! I ended up choosing the Chicco Keyfit because it has great reviews, I have several friends who love it, and I've heard it's lightweight and easy to use. There's an adapter you can purchase with the City Select stroller to add this car seat to it.

Skip Hop Diaper BagI heard from many people to consider getting a backpack diaper bag so I can have my hands free. I absolutely LOVE how chic this bag is and I can't wait to use! 

Ergo Baby CarrierA friend ended up giving me her Ergo Baby carrier and I can't wait to use it! I've heard this is an amazing carrier and is great when you're baby gets a little older.

Solly Baby Wrap: I think the Solly Baby Wraps are GORGEOUS and I love the idea of keeping my baby close to me when he's very little. I've heard these wraps are great for young babies before you want to put them in the ergo.

4moms Breeze PlayardThis was an item I debated a ton about. It's definitely a splurge and I know there are certainly other great and much less expensive playards out there. I had actually originally registered for a less expensive Graco pack n'play and changed my mind but if we don't end up getting it, I know there's other great options! One of my good friends shared with me that she thinks it's worth investing in some of the key baby items you'll use over and over again because they'll last longer, be more user friendly, and hopefully help us get through multiple children. This playard has amazing reviews and I love that it is simply, looks minimalistic, is safe for newborns and toddlers, and, most importantly, it's supposed to pack up in a "breeze!" The playard is something I imagine we'll use a lot, potentially in the beginning as a bassinet and then later for travelling, taking naps away from home, etc. 

Gear and Toys:

Fisher Price Rock'n'playThis is one of those items I heard over and over again that we MUST have. I plan to put baby DiPrima in the Rock'n'play during the first several weeks and keep him in our room. I know I will also use it a ton for naps and as a place to put him down when I need my hands free. One friend gave me good advice to be sure I get one that plugs into an electrical outlet so I'm not having to change the batteries out all the time.

4moms Mamaroo:  I've heard amazing things about the Mamaroo and I love that it is compact, nice looking, and is both a swing and bouncer in one. Whenever possible, I'm trying to cut down on the number of things we get and get items that double up for multiple purposes. I love that this has multiple settings and can be connected to music through your iPhone!

Skip Hop PlaymatI love Skip Hop items and loved the simple look of this playmat! 

Sophie La GiraffeI've heard over and over again that this is often baby's favorite toy and is great for teething. I also love how adorable it is!

Infant Optics Baby MonitorI originally registered for the Motorola monitor (which I've heard very good things about!) but switched to this monitor because of all the amazing reviews on Amazon. I like that this one pans and tilts and, unlike the motorola monitor, you can add different lenses (wide angle, zoom, etc.) if needed. I've also heard the battery life is much better than motorola and other options out there.

Hatch Baby RestThis just seems like the coolest little gadget to me! It is a sound machine and night light that can be controlled remotely from your phone. You can use it as a soft light for nighttime feedings, brighter lighter for when it's ok to wake, etc. You can also change the color of the light, sounds, and volume to help establish healthy sleep routines.

Dock-A-TotAgain, this is certainly not a necessity, but I have heard AMAZING things about the dock-a-tot. You can use it for co-sleeping (which I don't plan to do but like that I would have the option), as well as a lounger and you can put it in the crib to create a more cozy "womb-like" environment. 

Feeding and Diapering: 

Skip Hop High ChairI told you I love the Skip Hop brand! ;) I absolutely LOVED the look of this high chair and if it's going to have to sit in my kitchen for several years, I'd like to not hate the way it looks. While it's beautiful, it also has good reviews, seems very easy to clean, and can be converted to a toddler booster seat. We have an island where we eat a lot of our meals so I plan to pull this up to the island. In addition, a friend also gave me this type of seat that I plan to strap into our dining room table chair and also to use for travel.

Milk SnobI think this is so cute and I love that it can be used as a nursing cover or as a car seat cover!

My Brest Friend PillowI've heard from a ton of people that they prefer this to the boppy for breast feeding. It sounds like it provides great support.

Medela Pump in StyleAfter hearing many great things, this is the pump I ended up getting! I got the pump for free from my health insurance so be sure to check with your insurance! I didn't get the accessories so I registered for a cooler, car charger, and battery charger as well because I'm going to have to pump while shooting weddings.

Tommee Tippee & Dr. Brown's BottlesI've heard so many different things about so many bottles and I know it's one of those things we're just going to have to try out and see what baby DiPrima like the best! These are the 2 I have consistently heard good things about for breast feeding moms because they both release milk slowly. I have heard the Tommee Tippee bottles are easier to clean! 

Baby BeabaThis isn't a must have but it would be nice to have! I'd like to make my own baby food and I LOVE that this both steams food (even meat!) and purees it. I'm all about anything that's going to cut down on time in the kitchen and make my life easier!

Aden & Anais BurpiesI also love everything Aden & Anais! I've heard these burpies are amazing and they are so cute and can also be used as bibs! 

Dekor Diaper GenieI like the look of this diaper genie and I like that it can take regular trash bags. I've also heard great things about the Ubbi diaper pail but I decided it wasn't worth it to me to splurge on the genie since I'm not sure if we'll end up wanting one (I have a feeling we will but I've also heard from others they prefered just to put diapers in the outside trash can right away).

Postpartum Nursing Essentials: I wrote a blog already on some of the postpartum clothing items I've wanted so I won't go into all of that. But scroll on the widget below to see lots of other suggestions for postpartum nursing essentials like these camis, these bras, nursing pads, steam bags (for quickly sterilizing pump parts in the microwave), etc.
       

Safety & Bath:

HumidifierI love the look of this humidifier and I definitely think it will come in handy fighting off sickness! I felt that this was especially important to get since we'll be having a baby just as winter and flu season are beginning.

NoseFridaI've heard this is a must have to get rid of baby boogers (it still weirds me out that you do that by sucking on it buuuut I guess that's #momlife). I've heard it's very important because babies get boogers and colds so easily and they really need to have clear nasal passages to breastfeed well. Also, thankfully, this doesn't actually get their boogers anywhere near your moth. ;)

EurobathThis has great reviews and I've heard it's an amazing baby bath! I love that it's large and can be used from 0-24 months

Baby Care KitThis kit includes all the essentials you need to do things like trim nails, dispense medicine, comb hair etc. 

Rectal ThermometerIt sounds sad but I've read that in the beginning it's best to use a rectal thermometer because that will give you the most accurate reading of the baby's temperature. 

Miscellaneous:

Now for a final, few miscellaneous things! I didn't register for many clothes, blankets, diapers, or books because I was told that people would automatically get those things. So far that has been true! However, there were some miscellaneous things that I wanted to be sure to get:

Zip-front Play N'SleepersI've heard from several people to be sure to have a lot of footed play n'sleepers that ZIP up (no snap up ones). That makes total sense to me because in the middle of the night, I know the last thing I'm going to want to do is snap up PJs.

SwaddleMe SwaddlersAs you'll notice, I registered for several different kinds of swaddles. I've heard from many people that I'll learn which kind I prefer and I may prefer to use different swaddles at different stages in baby's development. I've also heard you can never have too many swaddles or blankets! I've heard these swaddlers are amazing because they just velcro!

Aden + Anais SwaddlesI've heard so many great things about these and about how soft they are, how well they hold up, and that they can be used to swaddle, used as blankets, and used as nursing covers.

Halo SleepsackI believe this is the type of swaddle hospitals recommend and I've also heard from several that it's what their baby liked best! I also like that it just zips up.

Wubbanub PaciI think these are so cute and I've heard from so many how much their kids love these! 

Waterproof linersI registered for waterproof liners for our changing pad, crib, king mattress (in case my water breaks or we do any co-sleeping), and waterproof playard sheets. #wewillstaydry

Dreft Stain RemoverI've heard this is the best stain remover for babies and I know we'll be needing a LOT of stain remover and detergent in the next year!

Baby BookI think this book is DARLING and I love how minimal and clean the design is! I also love that it is handmade by one woman who owns her own business.

Phew, so there you have it! There's all the major things I registered for! I hope you found this helpful if you're a soon to be mom or perhaps a mom having another child who wants to stay updated on the newest products out there. Do you have any favorite things you registered for or received that I missed? Do you have some of the items I listed? What do you think about them? I'd love to hear all about your thoughts!

P.S. If you're in a different season of life and currently creating a wedding registry, I created a post a while back on 8 Wedding Registry Essentials!

29 Week Pregnancy Update & Maternity Leave

It's hard to believe I'm already in my third trimester! I wanted to share a pregnancy update with you today and also fill you in on my maternity leave plans:

How have you been feeling?
Overall, I've been feeling great! I'm so thankful this has been an easy pregnancy so far! Baby DiPrima is definitely an active baby and seems to like to kick me HARD every night as I'm trying to fall asleep. :) I've started to notice a little more pregnancy insomnia and some nights I've had a really hard time sleeping (probably also because of the kicking!). I've also started to get a little more back pain. But overall I feel good and baby DiPrima has been growing at a healthy rate and looks healthy at every doctors appointment. Also, I recently passed my glucose test so that was a big relief!!!

When will you take maternity leave?
I will not photograph any more sessions after October 7th
. I will still respond to emails, phone calls, etc. for a few more weeks and then I will officially be on maternity leave October 23-January 1. During maternity leave I will still book 2018 & 2019 weddings and sessions, but otherwise I will be largely unavailable. If you are a current client or hope to be a future client, I ask that you please get in touch with me before the end of October! Also, if you're hoping to do a fall session, spots are filling up very quickly and I suggest you get in contact with me to book ASAP. I also have more information on fall mini sessions being offered here.

Dress: Mossimo (similar here, here, and here); Necklace: Kendra Scott; Shoes: Tahari (available in black here and perforated here)

What things did you love during your second trimester?
My sister-in-law let me borrow her maternity pillow and that has been AMAZING! I think it has helped some with the back pain because putting a pillow in between your legs when you sleep on your side helps to align your spine. I have also been living in these  and these elastic non-maternity linen shorts (and here is the pants version!), this dress, and I've been loving these long camis. I love that I'll be able to use many of these items even after the baby comes! I haven't done as much reading as I wanted to, but I've enjoying this book that my friend Lauren gave me. I'm hoping to read Baby Wise soon too...please let me know if you have any other suggestions!

Shop some of my favorites by clicking on the images below:

Do you have a name picked out yet?
We get asked this question quite frequently and the answer is no. :) We have about three names we're debating between but we still need to make a final decision. It feels like such a big decision to make!

What are you most excited about during your third trimester?
Baby showers! I finally finished my baby registries at Amazon and Target and that felt like quite a feat! There are so many opinions and options and so I tried to do a ton of research and ask my mom friends and I think I have hopefully made good decisions, at least about the big things like car seat and stroller! My friends have been so kind to offer to throw me showers in Clemson, Winston-Salem, and Mebane and I'm really excited to have a reunion with so many close friends and to celebrate Baby DiPrima! I'm also excited to finish getting the nursery set up. Right now we have the room painted, curtains hung, and I bought a vintage dresser/changing table. We still need to set up the crib (I'm thinking about painting it...anyone have any suggestions on that?!) and decorate. 

Also, I'm beginning to think about postpartum clothes. I want to stock up on comfy pajamas, nursing bras and camis, cozy sweaters, loose and flowy tops, and nursing friendly outfits. You can see what's on my wish list (or a few of these items I have recently purchased!) here:

Babymoon in the English Countryside

Alex and I were very blessed to be able to travel to England a few weeks ago for a babymoon/3 year anniversary trip! We have friends that live outside of London and so we were able to stay with them and we get very cheap airline tickets (if you're looking to fly to Europe on the cheap, check out WOW Air...just be sure to pack light, that's how they get you!). We both absolutely LOVE England. I studied abroad in London my senior year at Clemson and enjoyed going back with Alex last year (see parts one, two, three, and four of that trip) and then again this year. Alex is currently working on a PhD in Historical Theology on Charles Spurgeon who was a famous English pastor in London in the 1800's and so he's gone to England one additional time without me to do a lot of research on Spurgeon. 

This time, our trip mainly consisted of driving around the English countryside and visiting small villages and eating lots of cream tea (cream tea consists of a scone, jam, clotted cream, and tea). We were able to spend a few days in the Cotswolds which was a dream come true for me because I have ALWAYS wanted to go there and it did not disappoint! We also got to see Dorset and the coast and the beautiful countryside in Somerset. One of our last days there, we went to the small town of Chawton and saw Jane Austen's house where she wrote all of her novels. I am a huge Jane Austen fan and a big fan of Victorian English literature in general, so that was very exciting (don't worry, Alex enjoyed it too)! We also went to the small village of LaCock which is where the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice was filmed, it was adorable. In addition to Austen's house, picture below you'll also find William Churchill's house, C.S. Lewis' house, and Headley Grange (where Zeppelin recorded Stairway to Heaven).

I'm excited to share that I will be opening a store soon with a few of my favorite prints from my two trips to England! I'll share more soon, but these prints will be high quality photographic art prints and I think they would make great gifts or would be wonderful framed in your home. I can't wait to share more details soon! 

For now, here's some of my favorite pictures from our trip:

It's a...

 
 

BOY!!

We are so excited to announce that we will be welcoming a baby boy into the world in October! Here's a few updates on my pregnancy (you can also read my first pregnancy post here):

How far along are you?
I am 18 weeks and due October 27.

How are you feeling?
I feel great! Since I've gotten out of the first trimester I have much more energy and thankfully no more nausea. 

What gender did you think the baby would be?
I thought it would be a boy (I promise I'm not just saying that now!). I thought was a boy because I didn't have very bad morning sickness (which they say is a sign of a boy) and ask I got into my second trimester I started to feel a lot of little kicks (which I figured meant I have an active baby and possibly a boy). 

What have been some of your favorite pregnancy products so far?
So far the the belly band has been a life saver! I pretty much stopped being able to button my jeans at 10 weeks and so for the last 2 months I have used a belly band in order to fit into my regular jeans. I'm just getting to the point now where I can't fit in my regular jeans with a belly band. I'll let you know in my next update post what good maternity jeans I find (the struggle is real, it is so hard to find good maternity clothes!). A few things I loved in the first trimester when I had morning sickness were: Gin Gins, Preggie Pops, and No Morning Sickness Tea

What clothes are you wearing?
As mentioned above, I am still wearing normal jeans with a belly band. I have also been wearing a lot of maxi dresses and I purchased a few maternity dresses from target. So far I have found the best places to shop for maternity are Old Navy, Gap, Target, H&M, Asos, and Pink Blush.

What have you done to prepare for the baby?
So far we have painted the nursery (Sherwin Williams Repose Gray at 50% strength) and I have registered for a birth class for us to take at the hospital. I have also been reading this book (thanks to my sweet friend Lauren who gifted it to me!). We have also started going through some baby name apps and making a list of potential names.

What are you looking forward to?
I am looking forward to beginning to register for baby items (although I also overwhelmed by all the stroller, car seat, etc. options!). I am also VERY excited to begin decorating the nursery. I will share some update pictures as I begin doing setting things up!

Please let me know if you have other questions! I'm hoping to post a pregnancy update every few months.

Some Big News!

 
 

Alex and I are thrilled to announce that we are pregnant with our first child! This is a blessing that we have been praying for and we could not be more thankful to God for giving us this little life! We've already told family and some friends and so today I'm sharing answers to a lot of the most common questions they have asked me:

How far along are you?
I am just about to enter my second trimester at 13 weeks.

When are you due?
I am due October 27. We could have a halloween/Reformation day baby!

How have you been feeling?
Overall, I've been feeling pretty good! I have been very tired and mildly nauseous. But usually as long as I eat every few hours, I feel pretty good. I'm very thankful because I know morning sickness can be much worse for some women!

Have you had any cravings or aversions?
I have been craving fruit and citrus things (I've definitely never eaten this many clementines in my life!) and I've also been craving sweets (mainly donuts and baked goods...but I often wanted those before I was pregnant too so I don't know how much of a pregnancy craving it is!). As far as aversions go, unfortunately I've had a strong aversion to chicken, which has been difficult because chicken is the meat I typically eat and cook the most! I've had a hard time with meat in general but I can eat most meats other than chicken.

Are you going to find out the gender?
For sure! Alex and I are way too impatient to wait. :) We will find out the gender in June.

Photo by Naisang Photography

So you were pregnant when Alex got in his accident?
A lot of people have asked me this! For those of you who don't know, Alex was in a head on collision back in March. I may share more about it on the blog about it at some point. But yes, I was about 6 weeks pregnant when it happened. Alex's accident was so scary for many different reasons, and it happening shortly after we found out I was pregnant was definitely one of them! I am still amazed and so thankful that Alex came out of it with just a 3 day stay in the hospital and a collapsed lung. It's truly a miracle that it wasn't worse, God protected him. It was an incredibly difficult few weeks in our lives and I am so thankful for the comfort that I have in knowing God is with me in the midst of trials like the one we experienced. I truly can't imagine going through something like that without Christ. I felt God giving me a supernatural strength during that time that I know did not come from myself. The Lord is truly near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).

How will this affect DiPrima Photography?
Having a baby shouldn't actually affect my business much! I will be taking October-December off from weddings to give myself time in October in case the baby comes early and then to take maternity leave. Other than that, I plan to move forward with shooting weddings as normal. I will be taking on a limited number of weddings in 2018 and I am already partially booked so it is good to get your date on my calendar as soon as possible. :)

Thank you for reading along! I plan to share periodic pregnancy related posts for those who are interested so be sure to check back!

"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate." -Psalm 127:3-5